Noise and Yucky Stuff

Remember the good old days? Chalk boards and clapping erasers outside after school, rotary dial phones, the world before video games and entertaining yourself by playing outside, 8-tracks, tapes, records, and reel-to-reel video, slide shows were actual square, paper frames with film in between them, TV Dinners, the world before TV (for some of my readers)… We could go on and on. With all that’s happening in our world, I like to sit back and think of simpler, kinder times. When I was growing up the worst thing I had to worry about was getting a flat tire on my bicycle during the 3.5 mile ride home from playing tennis. That meant I would have to walk the rest of the way home. There wasn’t such a thing as a cell phone to use to call home and have someone come pick me up. Times have changed.

The world seems to be in a big hurry and has become cluttered with “noise” and “yucky stuff”. Homes are filled with multiple televisions, a couple of computers, tablets and iPads, cell phones, and iPods. Not to mention, the constant bombardment of noise and yucky stuff from television and social media that inundates our lives. It is impossible to watch a news broadcast and not hear about tragedies of some kind. Most often, it seems like the entire broadcast is informing us of terrible things happening around us. Let us not forget how much divorce attorneys love social media for the stories, status updates and pictures. Like I said, noise and yucky stuff.

As I sit here outside with a slight breeze blowing, birds chirping and a view of the water just beyond to screen of my laptop, I have come to realize more than ever how important it is to get rid of the noise and yucky stuff now and then. Unplug all of the electronics. Breathe in the fresh air, look up at the nature that surrounds you, appreciate the simple things again. A month ago I did just that. I unplugged. I unplugged for two days and returned to a simpler life for the weekend. Admittedly, it was not easy at first. I kept reaching for my iPad to see what everyone was up to on all of the social media sites. I kept wanting to pick up my phone to do anything other than make a phone call. Remember when a phone was meant for phone calls and that was all? As time went on though, I found myself enjoying my time without the noise and yucky stuff. I picked up a book, not an electronic version of it, but an actual paperback, went outside, sat in my chair and read. I finished a number of chapters and thought it had only been a short time. I came to realize that I had been outside enjoying my book in my favorite chair, with my puppy next to me for two and a half hours. Time seemed to stand still.

The weekend was a success. I made it through the weekend without Facebook, Twitter, my blog, my laptop and iPad, and using my cell phone only for calls that came in and the Sunday morning call to my parents. Unplugging is now a regular practice of mine. So, I challenge you to give it a try. There is too much noise and yucky stuff in the world and around us every day. We must take it upon ourselves to slow down, unplug, clear our minds, and enjoy the simpler things in life. Get your head out of your electronics and enjoy your family. Have actual conversations with each other. Go outside. Enjoy your surroundings. Breathe in the fresh air. Get away from the noise and yucky stuff for a while. You will be amazed by the impact it has on your overall being. Most importantly turn off the noise and yucky stuff to enjoy life!

Dear Younger Me

Dear Younger Me,

I have some things to say and I’d really appreciate it if you would listen and not act like a know-it-all teenager.

“Tight rolling” your pant legs really was not a good look for you… or anyone else for that matter. You are in for a hell of a ride. Just enjoy it! There will be hard times. Just know you get through it. You also meet some incredible people in the mean time and travel to many countries. Don’t be afraid to be yourself, the right people will love you for being exactly that. In retrospect, you are shockingly rad! Keep on keepin’ on! Stay a child as long as you can. Life is not a race. Make mud pies, it’s fun. Life is a lesson. Seek out your teachers, ask questions, have fun. Keep being awesome. Don’t be embarrassed to do karaoke, you’ll miss out on lots of fun times with friends. Plus, you’re not as bad a singer as you think you are. Well, maybe you are, but who cares. You will have a blast!

Invent the Snuggie. It’s a robe, worn backwards, made out of fleece. It’ll be a hit one day. Surprisingly, you CAN run 26.2 miles. I know, crazy right?! You will throw up in front of the brass faculty during your first, second and third Jury Recitals in college. Make sure you have a trash can next to the music stand! Don’t get talked into a perm in junior high. Bad idea! Don’t eat that burrito! Beer funnels in college will seem like a good idea at the time, but not the next day. The Powerball numbers for 4/12/2013 are 3,4,13,29,38 PB# 21.

Spend as much time as possible with your family, all of them! You will miss them tremendously when they are gone. Invent Facebook. It’s easier to stay in shape than to get back in shape. Put down the chips! Do not, under any circumstance, watch “Marley and Me”. It will break your heart! Buy Apple Inc, at $3.47/share and invest in Google.

When I look back at you, I can sum up your life so far in 5 words: I’m REALLY proud of you. Enjoy it all!

Sincerely,

The Older You